My dentist told me that people of my age ( and probably yours) were child victims of dentistry at that time. As we come from the same area it's even more likely this applies to you too. Apparently, when we visited a dentist as children, it was normal procedure to remove the entire flower from back teeth and put in a great big filling instead. This weakens the tooth in the first place and as we get older and have subjected our teeth and gums to all kinds of evils (acids, caffeine, smoking etc) then the bone that holds the teeth also weakens. At that point there is very little left to be done to save a tooth.
That said, the last tooth I had extracted took so much getting out I don't believe anymore that nothing could be done with it. I'm wondering if dentistry today is recommending extraction.